All Inclusive Hotel??

We are looking at heading to Aruba at the end of this year or the beginning of next year. I am interested in All-Inclusive Hotels. I'm not sure if we will be bringing the kids, or leaving them with family at this point so suggestions on both would be great.
I really don't know much about the island, so I will be posting a lot of silly questions:o since I will be planning the entire vacation on my own. Any help would be great!

If budgeting is not a problem for you, it would be great if you'll travel with your kids. Let me share some of the cool hotels I've visited. I've stayed at Divi Aruba and Manchebo Beach Resort. Of course, all inclusive from food, drinks and other hotel amenities. I can assure that you'll like the ambiance of these hotels.

Some friends of ours stayed at the Tamarijn and they loved it. The things I like about it are that it's right on the ocean, it has activities for the children and it's not a casino.

By all means stay at the Tamarijn. I like the idea that they have activities that the children can participate in all day long so you can have time as a couple if you want. It´s also right on the beach.